fix: table lazy rows can't expand at the first time (#3731)

* fix: Table Attributes expand-row-keys has changed, but fold not work

* fix: Table lazy column can't expand at the first time

* Update packages/components/table/src/store/tree.ts

Co-authored-by: jeremywu <15975785+JeremyWuuuuu@users.noreply.github.com>

* Update packages/components/table/src/store/tree.ts

Co-authored-by: jeremywu <15975785+JeremyWuuuuu@users.noreply.github.com>

Co-authored-by: jeremywu <15975785+JeremyWuuuuu@users.noreply.github.com>

packages/components/table/src/store/tree.ts

@@ -67,6 +67,7 @@ function useTree<T>(watcherData: WatcherPropsData<T>) {
   }
 
   const updateTreeData = (
+    ifChangeExpandRowKeys = false,
     ifExpandAll = instance.store?.states.defaultExpandAll.value
   ) => {
     const nested = normalizedData.value
@@ -77,10 +78,17 @@ function useTree<T>(watcherData: WatcherPropsData<T>) {
       const oldTreeData = unref(treeData)
       const rootLazyRowKeys = []
       const getExpanded = (oldValue, key) => {
-        if (expandRowKeys.value) {
-          return ifExpandAll || expandRowKeys.value.includes(key)
+        if (ifChangeExpandRowKeys) {
+          if (expandRowKeys.value) {
+            return ifExpandAll || expandRowKeys.value.includes(key)
+          } else {
+            return !!(ifExpandAll || oldValue?.expanded)
+          }
         } else {
-          return !!(ifExpandAll || oldValue?.expanded)
+          const included =
+            ifExpandAll ||
+            (expandRowKeys.value && expandRowKeys.value.includes(key))
+          return !!(oldValue?.expanded || included)
         }
       }
       // 合并 expanded 与 display，确保数据刷新后，状态不变
@@ -126,6 +134,13 @@ function useTree<T>(watcherData: WatcherPropsData<T>) {
     instance.store?.updateTableScrollY()
   }
 
+  watch(
+    () => expandRowKeys.value,
+    () => {
+      updateTreeData(true)
+    }
+  )
+
   watch(
     () => normalizedData.value,
     () => {